Did you know that widows feel shame?  Did you know that widowers feel shame? I just realized this. As I was driving to hospice bereavement last week it hit me like a ton of bricks. Sometimes when I speak about Michelle, I feel shame. And many times I do not speak about Michelle when I […]

I started this blog a year ago today.  February 23, 2016.  For all those who post or blog about their late loved one.  For all those who post or blog about their loss.    For all those who talk about their late loved one.  For all those who talk about their loss. This is why we […]

There are so many instances that I can speak of in which people where there for Michelle, my step daughter and I during her cancer battle. And after it.  The support we received was truly remarkable.  From time to time I will highlight somebody who was there for us, what they did and what it meant to […]

You’ve Changed. Have you heard this since your loss? Maybe you have. Maybe you haven’t. But my guess is that you’ve felt it. You’ve felt it about yourself. You’ve felt the eyes of others judging you with those thoughts:  You’ve Changed Here is my question:  How could you not?  How could you not change?  Were […]